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How much of YOU is in the stories you write?

I was asked this question a few days ago by a friend. I really think she was fishing to find out if I’d ever put her in a book, but that’s besides the point. The question has some validity if you go by the old rule, write what you know.

Well, who/what do you know best? Yourself, of course.

But let’s face it: I’m really boring. I do not have a fascinating life and the most exciting thing I’ve done this year was to go to the RWA conference in San Antonio.

So, if I wrote what I knew, all my books would be about psychiatric, ophthalmic nurses. Cute and interesting once or twice, but nothing to build a writing career on.

But back to the question: How much of me is in my stories?

I can truthfully say, not a lot. Sometimes I’ll write a line of dialogue or use a phrase that I know gets a response because I’ve used it in real life. Or in my Cook Book series I refer to some of the recipes that are tried and true in my life.

As far as my female characters, none of them is like me at all. I purposefully make sure of that when I create them. They don’t resemble me in any visceral way and most of them are way, way smarter than me. Their internal beliefs and struggles are not mine, either.

If they do bare any resemblance it is in the fact they are all fighters like I am.

My world views, my politics and even my religion are not factors in what I write. I try to balance the character with the setting and the plot. I’ve never written about a chubby, curly haired, not-too-attractive catholic-raised girl who was abandoned by her father and left with a none-too-stable mother and an evil grandmother. If I tried to write that story it might just be the end of me!

I know conventional writing wisdom dictates that every story has a little of the author in it.

I can truly say the only thing of me in my stories is my name in the credits.

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San Antionio, here I come!

Well, the countdown has begun. In a few short days I leave for my first official RWA conference in San Antonio, TX, a state I’ve never visited before.

I’ve been trying on clothes for days, searching the long term forecast to see if my choices would be appropriate for the 100+ degree temps the Weather channel is predicting. Since this is the conference to end all conferences for the romance writing community, I want to not only look my best ( read, a professional author!) but I want to be remembered as well. So, I’ve got my business cards packed, too.

I’ve been reading up on the lovely city of San Antonio and if I have some time I’ll surely go visit some of the sites – historic and commercial. But the main reason I’m going on this solo trip is to drink in and savor and learn from all the fabulous courses that are being offered, in addition to (Hopefully!) meeting some of my absolute fav authors.

Wish me luck with the traveling since I never like to travel without my wingman!! He’ll be home, taking care of business, while I bask in the penultimate romance writing experience.

Yippie!

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