25 Days of Christmas Ornaments day #6

Yesterday’s ornament was all about good friends. Today’s is about family.

In the past four years my mother-in-law and my father-in-law have both died. Not, thankfully from this ridiculous virus, but from causes of old age, a life of good living, and what the professionals call natural causes.

I miss them. It’s as simple as that. I know my husband’s family mourn the loss of both their parents terribly and I feel for them. But I miss them, too. They were both such influential people in my life. While my father-in-law and I had – at times – a tortured relationship, he was only a handful of people who I have truly admired in my life. He influenced me in so many ways I would need a book to list them all.

My mother-in-law was – without a doubt – the nicest person I have ever had the pleasure to meet, know, and love. She perpetually smiled, was always welcoming to everyone, and never had an unkind word to say. How many people in our lives can we truly say were genuinely kind like that?

So, with their father’s passing this year, my sister-in-law Kathleene gifted her siblings with a lovely remembrance that simply speaks to how wonderful their parents were.

What a wonderful ornament, no? I adore it and it sits in a place of honor on our tree and will for the rest of our lives.

Hug your parents, kids. YOu never know how long you’ll be blessed to have them with you.

~Peg

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3 responses to “25 Days of Christmas Ornaments day #6

  1. What a lovely ornament! And a wonderful acknowledgement/ memory. I had a delightful mother-in-law and father-in-law as well. Thank you for sharing.

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  2. A beautiful post and ornament!

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  3. Holly

    Peg, this may be the loveliest, most heartfelt blog post I have ever read. I am sorry for your losses. I am cheered that your family and wonderful memories will sustain you during this challenging time. A wonderful legacy of love your in-laws left you and yours. Holly

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