
I’ll be home with hubby and Maple. We won’t make it to midnight, ‘cuz we’re old ( LOL) but we’ll toast before we go to bed.

I’ll be home with hubby and Maple. We won’t make it to midnight, ‘cuz we’re old ( LOL) but we’ll toast before we go to bed.
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Yesterday, I put up a cryptic post on Facebook that read NEW YEAR, NEW ME.
Lots of comments on that one, I’ll tell ya. The gist was people said ( thankfully), “I like the old you!”
Awww. Thanks, peeps. But let me explain the meaning of that statement so everyone can understand why it was so important for me to announce it.
For the past 18 months I’ve been on a journey to try and get healthy. Not healthier, but healthy, because for most of my life I’ve been physically and psychologically unwell.
18 months ago my weight was at the highest it had ever been in my life. My joints ached all the time. My clothes didn’t fit so all I ever wore were scrub tops and pants and pjs, and elastic-waisted pants. My sciatica screamed daily and I just felt like…well, like shit most days. Menopause weight gain, boredom weight gain, and post-pandemic weight gain had topped me out to a BMI of 30. Which, if you know anything about medicine, tells you I was classified as obese.
Yikes.
Double yikes.
Except for a brief period when I was 15-17 and flirted with anorexia, I have always been above average for weight. Genetics plays a part, but most of it during my life has been an out-of-control eating disorder that runs rampant when my emotions are out of whack.
Which they were for 40 years.
I’m not kidding.
Nothing worked. Diets made me crankier and more emotional and resulted in binging. Exercise exacerbated the pain in my joints. 40 years of dieting packed 60 pounds on my frame that I didn’t need.
One day, my sister-in-law told me about something she was doing to try and get rid of the menopause-induced weight gain she was suffering through. It sounded like a miracle.
And to someone like me, it was.
I got on a test program for weight loss for the drug that was soon-to-be FDA approved, MOUNJARO. It was wickedly expensive and because I had no co-morbidities ( high blood pressure, diabetes,) I was just fat, I had to pay out of pocket for it, which, let me tell you, was equivalent to the GNP for a small third world nation.
But I did it. I paid.
And I started losing weight.
A lot of weight.
To date, I am down 65 pounds from the very first day I began injecting the drug.
Do I still have sciatic pain? Yes, at times, especially if I am on a long car ride. But my joints otherwise are almost pain-free.
Now, I know there are millions of people who right now are saying that I cheated my way to weight loss. That I didn’t do the work I should have. That I just needed to eat less, move more, and drink water.
I did all that, peeps. For 40 years.
For some people ( a lot of people, actually) those things don’t work. We need something to help jumpstart us and get the scale needle moving, and the weight loss injectable helped me. Tremendously. It obliterated my appetite, my cravings, my psychological need to use food when my emotions were out of whack.
And speaking of emotions. Once the weight started coming off, not only was I lighter in body, but in spirit also. It seems most of those emotional issues I was experiencing were from feeling overwhelmed by the weight and not being able to do anything about it. Today, my moods are better controlled and when I am experiencing sadness or get a little depressed, I don’t immediately reach for the Peppermint Patties or the potato bread because I don’t crave them anymore.
Are there side effects of the drug? Sure. My hair got very thin and I had to take measures to correct the loss and thinning. The skin on my abdomen and thighs, despite exercising now ( without pain) sags and I look like I have the jowls of a hound dog hanging from my waist.
Do I care? Some. But I don’t live in a nudist colony and the only ones who ever see me naked are my doctor and husband. One doesn’t care and the other loved me even when I was fat, so there’s that.
I am able to exercise now, which I do. I eat much healthier, and I still have the added benefit that I am never – never – hungry or craving food.
So.
2023-24 was the year I geared up for the change in my body and psyche and took measures to ensure that change happened.
2025 is going to be the year I start living the life I dreamed about for the past 40 years. New clothes ( that fit) new hairstyle, new makeup. New spring in my step.
New year, new me.
So, see, all you peeps who were worried something drastic was coming down the pike. It’s still me. Only better.
At least, I hope better. You’ll have to decide when you see me.
Be kind to one another, peeps. I adore you all.
~ peg

From my house to yours, from my heart to yours, I wish you the happiest, most joyous, loving, and peaceful Christmas days.
Today, believe in the magic of Christmas, smile, laugh, and be with those you love and who love you.
And never forget who you belong to, and with.
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Next up in my 2025 publishing calendar is PERFECT MATCH, book 3 in the HEAVEN’S MATCHMAKER series.

Third-generation matchmaker, Olivia Joyner, enjoys a 99% success rate when it comes to helping people find their happily ever afters. But her newest client is proving to be part of the 0.1 percent.
All the women Olivia have matched geriatrician Hunter Reinhart with have been perfect on paper. None of them, though, have resulted in a second request for a date, and all the women say the same thing: Hunter, although handsome and successful, is just…dull. And boring. And too reserved.
Olivia can’t understand it, because to her? Hunter is none of those things. In fact, he’s the exact opposite of dull, boring, and reserved. He’s a man she would consider worthy of marrying herself – if she was in the market for a spouse.
Which she isn’t.
Olivia needs to figure out why she can’t find Hunter Reinhart the perfect match, and it just may require her to do something she’s never done before: go on a “date” with a client.
Purely for research and educational purposes, that is.
“So, tell me, Olivia, why matchmaking?”
Okay, not the question she would have led with, but he was making an effort.
She answered honestly. “Because I’m good at it. Always have been, even when I was in school. Plus, it’s the family business. I’m the third generation of Crally women to be a matchmaker.”
His eyes widened and he stopped cutting the roll in half to stare across at her. “Your grandmother is a matchmaker?”
“Mom, too. You didn’t know?”
“About your grandmother? No. She never mentioned it or even gave any indication she was in all the interactions we’ve had.”
“Well, in all fairness, the mantle was passed a while ago. First to my mom, and then from my mom to me.” She sighed. “It dies with me, too, because my daughter has no desire to take over for me.”
“You have a daughter.” Surprise lit his eyes. “I had no idea.”
She nodded. “Freya. She’s twenty-three and just got her Master’s Degree in physical therapy.”
“You have a twenty-three-year-old daughter. How is that possible?”
“What do you mean?”
“You’re what? Thirty-two? Thirty-three, tops?”
She laughed. “Okay, I know I shouldn’t have to say this, but you should never ask a woman her age on a first date. Or ever! Whether it’s a real date or fake,” she added when he began to protest. “But thank you for the compliment, and for the record, I just turned forty a few months ago.”
“Impossible. That means you had her at,” he thought for a moment, “Seventeen?”
She nodded.
“You were a child, Olivia.”
Not the first time she’d heard this from someone who didn’t know her past. “A little more than a child, I think.”
“How?”
She cocked her head, her lips twisting into a grin. “The usual way.”
He shook his head. “No, I mean…” His face pulled into a confused mask. There was no judgment in his tone or his expression, just bewilderment.
She took pity on him. “My boyfriend and I had been together since third grade and had always planned to get married after college.” She shrugged. “Freya just upped the timeline a bit.”
“You were married at seventeen?”
“Sixteen, actually. And before you say I was a child again, my mother was married at seventeen, my grandmother at fifteen. Early marriages are another thing we’ve passed down through the generations in my family.” She rolled her eyes. “And Freya broke the mold on that one too, since she’s twenty-three and single.”
He sat back in his chair, the roll and his hunger forgotten, and simply stared at her.
“Why are you looking at me that way?”
“Because I have a million other questions and I’m trying to discern if I should ask them.”
She waved her hand in the air. “Go for it.”
“Did you finish school? Go to college?”
“Yes and yes. I graduated high school as did Jon, my husband, and we both went to college in Concord. I majored in communications before you ask.”
“Where did you live?”
“With my parents.”
“They were…okay? With your…situation?”
“I told you, young marriages aren’t uncommon in my family. My grandparents and parents helped out, all of them thrilled to have a new baby to care for. My grandfather was the town pediatrician at the time and Freya couldn’t have had better care than from him and my grandmother and my parents. My grandparents said helping raise her made them feel young again.”
“I didn’t know your grandfather was a physician.”
She shrugged. “You didn’t grow up here, so why would you? He practiced for almost forty years and was still in practice when he…died.”
“I’m sorry,” he said automatically.
“You don’t need to be. He had a fabulous, fulfilling life, a thriving, rewarding practice, married his childhood sweetheart – see a pattern here?- and lived every day of his life with joy. That’s more than most people get in a fraction of their life.”
Again, the way he was staring at her, peering at her as though trying to see inside her head and body was a little disconcerting…but…alluring, as well.
“You are a surprise, Olivia Joyner,” he said as their waitress brought out their entrees.
Preorders are up here: PERFECT MATCH. Release date is 4.9.25! I can’t wait.
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I think a lot of us – at least I know this is true for me – have a hard time saying NO to people when they ask something of us.
As a nurse and, therefore, professional caregiver, it’s been instilled in me to answer a person’s call for help or assistance, so I truthfully could never say no.
In personal relationships, this is true for me as well. When a friend asks something of me, I do it. When hubby or daughter ask me to do something, I jump to it.
Funny thing is, when I ask something of people? No jumping. No hopping. In hubby’s case I get a usual, “I’ll get to it.” And I can’t fault him for that because he is a busy man.
Women have a tendency to not ask for help and in so doing, our time is split between everyone and everything else, leaving little for ourselves.
Learn to say no, peeps. Make 2025 a year where you practice NO. Don’t kneejerk a YES to everything asked of you. Take time to consider if you want or need to do it.
Take time for yourself.
You deserve it.
You are worthy.
You are enough.
You have agency and a voice.
Believe it and say NO.
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For me, Charlie Brown is first, last, nad always. I have never seen a Hallmark holiday movie.
Don’t hate me for that…lol!
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Just a quick note to tell you that the annual SMASHWORDS end-of-year sale is on right now, and all my widely available titles are included in the sale.
Now is your best chance to find my wide ebook collection for a promotional price at @Smashwords as part of their 2024 End of Year Sale! Find all the books on sale here: https://www.smashwords.com/shelves/promos/ through January 1!
Here is the direct link to my page and books on sale: PEGGY JAEGER SMASHWORDS
Many of my books are FREE, and some are at 50% off the list price – so bargains all around!!!

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