
Getting there is what it’s all about, not the end product. The growth and change you experience along the way are what make the journey worthwhile.
~ Peg

Getting there is what it’s all about, not the end product. The growth and change you experience along the way are what make the journey worthwhile.
~ Peg
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Such a philosophical question, hee hee.
For me, it has to be to believe in yourself when no one else does. Many moons ago, when I told people in my realm I was going to be a published author, I was met with laughter, a few quizzical, tolerant, sure-you-are-smiles, and one outright “you have to have talent to be a published writer. Are you sure you have it?”
I was sure. And I think I’ve proven it over these past years.
So, believe in yourself, kids. Believe you have the power to change your life, direct its course, and be what you want to be, no matter what other people say, think, or do.
It’s said that writers should write for themselves first. We should be our own first readers and fans and write stories to please ourselves.
In my case, this is true, all because I loved my characters and stories, each and every one, and I believed others would too. Plus, I believed in myself and what I wanted to do.
Never let anyone talk you out of a daydream, kids. Believe it will come true. That’s the first step in changing your life forever. ~ Peg
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So I wanted to share something today that’s been bringing me a great deal of peace and calm this past week.
About a week before Christmas, I saw an ad on Facebook for something called KIND NOTES. It was a website where you could purchase jars with different, enveloped sayings for many different things. For example, one was all about birthdays, one was about anniversaries, one was self-motivation and another was about inspiration.
I chose a jar called THERE’S ALWAYS A REASON TO SMILE because 2023 wasn’t a smiling year for me. In point of fact, I cried more than I smiled.

There are 31 inspiration envelopes with notes inside, one for every day of the month. So far this month, I’ve chosen these:


And a few others.
You chose one from the jar each day.
I’m smiling more so far this year…I think this may be part of the reason.
If you’re interested, here’s the website: KIND NOTES
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For my first Friday five of 2024, I give you…the 5 MUST-HAVES in a romance book. And I struggle sometimes to get them all in my books, lol!
2. Strong characters. No one is going to root for boring, flat, or negative characters who defy growth and change. That, after all, is the premise of the romance novel. Take two people who would never have gotten together if left to their own devices, throw them together, and then allow them to grow and change into a couple we all, as readers, adore. I’ve read too many books ( and DNF’d most of them) where the main characters were just…wrong.
3. Believable tropes. Just like we need to root for the hero and heroine, romance readers need to know the basic premise, or the tropes used, to get them to their HEA. Forced proximity, best friend’s brother, secret baby, mistaken identity and scores more, all help define the road these two people will take in order to have them find love in the end. And all romance readers have their favorite tropes to read, and writers to write. My personal fav to read and write is friends-to-lovers because I am always on the edge of my seat to see who lets the other person know their feelings first.
4. Believable conflict. Again, you want to lose yourself in the story and not be reading and then think, this is just too dumb and no one would ever do/say this. I heard a great definition of a true conflict in a romance story at a conference once. Here’s the set-up: a fire marshall is called to investigate a scene of obvious arson with a death associated with it. The supposed arsonist? His girlfriend, a girl whose family died in a fire and the person responsible was the one found in the above fire.
Conflict to a T!
5. HEA. Or happily ever after for those not in the anacronym-know. In recent years, the HFN (Happily for now ) ending has also been used to define the end of the story. Whichever you choose to read or write, the end goal is for the hero and heroine to be together, have a defined love relationship, and be committed to one another.
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So I’ve been re-reading some of my earlier in my career posts, and thought it would be fun to put a few up to see how different things are now.
This one is from 12/2015. My, how things have changed…
POST HOLIDAY THOUGHTS…
I’ve been silent on my multiple social media sites since Christmas Eve because I was traveling to spend time with family for the holiday. I got home today to over 600 emails, 300 Twitter feeds I had to view, and too many Facebook announcements to cover. To say I was in a bit of Social Media withdrawal is the understatement of the season.
I recently read…somewhere, I forget exactly where…that people really do have addictions to their social media, or more accurately, their smartphones, which basically rule their lives. I can so, so believe this is true. NOMOPHOBIA is an actual psychiatric term given to the fear of being without your cell phone. I found a cool article that explains the condition, and you can click on it here. To summarize, people fear being away from their phones to shower; they sleep with the phones under their pillows; and they experience high states and levels of measurable anxiety when they can’t readily locate their phones.
I will tell you honestly, I feel I suffer from this. Before my first book was published, I checked my sites on my phone maybe once a day. Since SKATER’S WALTZ hit the market I have increased that checking behavior to almost every half hour. It has gotten worse with each subsequent book release. I feel a constant need to be in touch with what is going on on my sites: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest the most. Honestly, I think I need to go to a support group and say, “hi. My name is Peggy and I’m addicted to my smartphone.” I have a recurrent nightmare as soon as I say that, all the other addicts in the room will whip out their own phones and start “searching” me.
Ridiculous.
So, after I spent a total of 6 hours going through everything, every site, every announcement, tweet and email, I was ready to do some serious writing work.
And then my phone beeped with incoming messages.
Speaking of social media sites, here’s a treat ( like that segue?!) Here’s a trailer for all the Candy Hearts books coming for Valentine’s Day, with the dates of their releases. Keep an eye on the 2/8/16 segment and you’ll see my cover, 3 Wishes. Click here:
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As we start a new year, I’ve got my first question of the year for you:

Mine is to focus on my overall health this year – physical and mental.
What’s yours?
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It’s always fun for me to see where I started on January 1 and where I wound up on December 31 with regard to my writing and publishing goals.
2023’s goals started like this:
~ increase daily word counts to 2000-3k/day
~ increase Instagram traffic
~increase personal appearances
~ increase book sales ( e and print)
~establish ARC team
~ finish and pub. 8 books
~ increase webtraffic and subscribers
~generate exceptional Holiday 2023 revenue via webstore
So…how did I do? You decide.
~ increase daily word counts to 2000-3k/day. The reality is that I did 1500-2000 on most of the days I wrote, consecutively.
~ increase Instagram traffic. Started the year with 1626 subscribers. Today I have 1673. So, not bad,but nothing to write home about.
~increase personal appearances. I did 4 in 2022 and in 2023 I did 9
~ increase book sales ( e and print) The count is still out on this one, but I def. Increased in revenue from 2022 to 2023. I still can’t support myself, but my tax bracket changed, LOL
~establish ARC team. It’s a small one, but there are 6 readers I adore to whom I send all my books prior to publication. I would like to grow that to more people ( so if you’re interested, drop me a line, LOL).
~ finish and pub. 8 books. I had everything plotted out for 8 books, then my mother died and I lost a few months’ momentum. Ended up with: 6. Not bad, but not 8!
~ increase web traffic and subscribers. I track my follower numbers every month and I’ve decreased in some sites and increased on others.
~generate exceptional Holiday 2023 revenue via webstore. So I can tell you right now this was a bust. I only had 2 people order books from me via the site.
So…how did I do? You decide.
Now, for 2024’s goals:
~ write 6 books
~get an agent
~ get a traditional publishing contract for my non-fiction book
~ increase tiktok followers to 5K+
~increase print and e books sales
~do less marketing and more writing
~continue to learn new aspects of marketing on the cheap
~4 in-person events ( 2 large, 2 small)
~guest on podcasts
I’ll check back with you on December 31, 2024 so we can discuss how I did.
For now…

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